Expectations :
Sometimes they get to me . Sometimes no matter how hard I try I fail to meet others expectations . Then what are my options ? Try harder or say this is all I have to give , I am sorry I can't match your expectations . I would rather withdraw from the relationship .
I have always tried to keep my expectations low . The only non negotiable for me is self respect . Don't put me down ,  don't be uncivil .
I feel telling someone that they are pushing me or expecting too much from me is undignified . I would hate to get into a slanging match .