Expectations :
Sometimes they get to me . Sometimes no matter how hard I try I fail to meet others expectations . Then what are my options ? Try harder or say this is all I have to give , I am sorry I can't match your expectations . I would rather withdraw from the relationship .
I have always tried to keep my expectations low . The only non negotiable for me is self respect . Don't put me down ,  don't be uncivil .
I feel telling someone that they are pushing me or expecting too much from me is undignified . I would hate to get into a slanging match . 

One should know when to walk away .

Good Service

We all complain when we are faced with bad service but how many of us appreciate exceptional service .

I have been fortunate to have been given just such service by two persons .

My aunts Samsonite broke while traveling , we went to buy another bag and there we complained to the salesman . He promised that we should bring back the bag and he would replace it .

A week later i went back , no bill no warranty and truth be told it had not been bought from that store . Within 5 minutes I had a new bag .

Bravo Samsonite for hiring such good people . In me you have made a customer for life .

Another person is the Steward at a bar i go to once in a while . He has got to know what i like and before i ask for it its there yet he is not in my face , not over friendly just perfect . Thanks Sundar

Bar girl Tries

A new video was launched by a girl who calls her self Aaliyah .

She is a amazing dancer who was very famous as a bar girl wish she had showcased her dance ability rather than try for a sex bomb immage .

Full marks for her attempt and wish her well in her new career .

The B J P ' Angry Members

If you watch TV then you might have noticed that all the BJP's grandees are always angry .

Look at Mr Advani , Mr Arun Jaitly , Mr V Naidu , Ms Sushma Swaraj , Mr Narenda Modi and recently Mr Varun Gandhi .

They never smile , no light hearted comments only a righteous anger .

They have lost 2 elections in a row and they still don't get it .

They wonder why Mr Rahul Gandhi connects with the people of India .

We need a strong opposition party who puts the country first who will not oppose for the sake of opposition but the BJP does not get it .

Its sad

Bar Girls In Bombay

The world of dance bars is totaly strange .
Why would a man buy a girl 2 flats ? Spend 4 years with her and walk away . The next day find her sleeping with another man . After 18 months cone back and buy her . 3 months later she dumps him for a man who gives her more money . The new man gave her over 20 L up front . Pluss 2.50 pm . Six months later is still giving her money but is now sleeping arround with other bar girls .
How can a girl pretend to fall in love every 3 months . What would it do to her emotional state ?
What about the man . There is obvously no love . So much money for sex . How can people pretend so much . How can people play with emotions like this .

If anybody understands this world pls do explain

Politeness in India

Why can we not stand in line ?
Why can we not say " After u pls "
While driving why can we not give way ?
Why can we not have a civilised disscussion in Parliament ?

Some years ago i was invited to a 5 star hotel . If one wanted a drink or food one had to push and shove . The guest list was the who s who of delhi . It was so sad .